“To me, there was magic in the learning.”
– Michelle Obama
Michelle Obama’s book “Becoming” is an excellent read. It is interesting, funny and you can learn a lot from it. I think it is also (or maybe even especially) an excellent read for everyone who is being forced to stay at home because of the Corona Crisis. Why?
Practicalities first: the novel has got 400+ pages, which is great, because we have a lot of time to spend at home and what’s better than having a good read to kill all that time?
Apart from that, the book has got a very positive and uplifting tone, something we do not find in the news nowadays and something we all need more than ever.
The book also contains many life lessons. Let me share two lessons you can find in this book and you can use in this special situation we find ourselves in.
One is that more choice leads to more stress. Many of us experience the opposite right now: more stress because we have little choice. A different perspective may be very welcome.
A second one is that Michelle Obama shows us the power of a loving and caring family and the power of friendships, relationships all of us can use and offer at the moment.
There are many more lessons this book contains. Read on to find out which ones from Michelle Obama’s extraordinary life you can link to your “normal” life in the current Corona Crisis.
“Nothing is so painful to the human mind as a great and sudden change.”
How different this weekend is from the one a week ago. And how much more different it is from the one two weeks ago (as the above photo clearly shows). Even though we had read about the Corona Virus in China and Italy for weeks, many of us had not anticipated all this: the social distancing, the working from home, home-schooling…and all that in the wink of an eye (not really or course, but so it feels).
For the first time in many months I felt lost for inspiration what to write about. There is a blogpost ready about the awesome Atlantic coast near Cascais, a really cool day trip from Lisbon. But who cares at the moment? Life has changed and we are adapting to that, learning to cope with new challenges.
I am sure many of you are, like me, looking for ways to deal with these new challenges in the best possible ways. That’s why I like to share my experiences with you, including my learnings.
“If you don’t climb the mountain, you can’t see the view.”
– Harvey Mackay
One of the best day trips from Lisbon is a visit to Sintra, a super charming little town situated in the high hills of the Serra de Sintra, one of Portugal’s 13 natural parks. Scattered all over the hills are beautiful palaces, extravagant villas and the ruins of an enormous Moorish castle. Sintra is simply a must-go and must-see whenever you are in Lisbon for more than 2 days.
The internet is full of organised tours to Sintra and this can make you feel that Sintra can only be done with a guide. I disagree. It’s an easy trip to undertake yourself, since public transport to and in Sintra is perfectly well organised and tickets can be bought online and on the spot. We did it all ourselves, took an early train to Sintra, had coffee with a pastéis de nata before taking the bus all the way up the Sintra hills. We visited 3 castles in one day at a leisurely pace and had a delicious light lunch in the charming old city centre as a break between our sightseeings.
If you want to explore Sintra without a guide too, please read on, since this week’s blogpost is all about possible ways to organise your one-day-trip to Sintra without a guide, without any hassle and with lots and lots of castles and food to enjoy!
“Every choice you make has an end result.”
– Zig Ziglar
There are so many cities to choose from for a city trip, that it may be hard to decide which one(s) to visit. Maybe my list of 7 reasons why you should visit Lisbon can help you choose. I have recently spent a wonderful week in this charming city and can honestly say that I think Lisbon offers something for everyone. I would definitely go to Lisbon if…
1. You like city trips and you are keen on beach days. Lisbon offers both!
2. You like sweet and salty food. Go to Lisbon and you can enjoy both!
3. You like good food and live music. Have dinner in a Fado restaurant in Lisbon and you have both!
4. You like reliable and inexpensive public transport. Travel to and in Lisbon and you have both!
5. You like city trips and you like to do some walking and cycling. Lisbon offers both!
6. You like wine and you like bubbles. Have some vinho verde in Lisbon and you have both!
7. You like modern and classical art. Lisbon is full of museums and certainly offers both (and more)!
Read on for tips and background information about food, public transport, miradouros, the best beaches, museums, Fado restaurants and more.
Let me also tell you that Lisbon is a great city to visit in winter, since Lisbon offers mild temperatures and sunshine☀️ in these months. I think it’s wonderful to enjoy that kind of weather in winter, when many of us have to do without warm and sunny days. Another good reason to put Lisbon on your list of cities to visit👍
“Sometimes there is only one thing left to say…..PS, I Love You”
– Cecilia Ahern
The quote is (surprise, surprise) from the novel PS, I Love You. A perfect gift and read for Valentine’s Day.
What is it about?
Well, about letters from one lover to another to start with.
Writing letters is often done at the beginning of a romance. Not so in this novel. The letters, that all end with PS, I Love You, are not written at the beginning, but at the end of a romance. The romance does not end because one of the two falls out of love though. The romance ends because one of the two falls ill. Terminally ill.
Holly and Gerry are childhood sweethearts, they marry and the whole picture just looks like a fairy tale, but without the “and they lived happily ever after”. Gerry gets a brain tumor and just before Holly turns 30 she is a widow. She does not know how to get on with life after this tragedy, something Gerry had anticipated. That’s why he has written 10 notes to her, all with some kind of assignment for Holly, helping her to get on with life and to be happy again.
Prepare yourself with a handkerchief when you start reading the novel, but rest assured: it’s a heartwarming one, a loving one, an uplifting one and one that shows the power of love in many ways.
Read on for more details and for discussion questions you may like to use in your book club or for yourself, simply to get more out of your read.
“As for New York City, it is a place apart. There is not its match in any other country in the world.”
– Pearl S. Buck
After a romantic city break to Venice with my husband early in 2019, I spent the Whitsun weekend in Paris with one of my female friends from Holland. In summer I went to Hamburg with 10 Swiss friends and I spoiled myself with one more city trip with another Dutch friend in 2019: New York City. You will understand that with so many holidays in one year, a girl has to watch her spending, so we did New York City very low budget (you can read all about it in this NYC blogpost), which worked out brilliantly.
For all my city trips, I always list 10 things that you should NOT do. So, here they are: 10 things NOT to do in New York City. I provide you with the reasons why and I offer you great alternatives! Enjoy your read.
“Reading brings us unknown friends”
– Honoré de Balzac
Last week, in my budget-friendly NYC blogpost, I jokingly quoted “Here’s to books, the cheapest vacation you can buy.” – Charlaine Harris. Well, it is true, but that’s not one of the reasons why I think women should join a book club.
What are some benefits a book club can offer you? Well, how about the following:
A book club will make sure you broaden your horizon, you deepen your knowledge, you familiarise yourself with other cultures, you develop your communication skills, you work on your management and leadership skills and you will enjoy female friendships. Sounds pretty good, don’t you agree? Read on for more awesome advantages and some useful tips and links too.
“Balancing your money is the key to having enough.“
– Elizabeth Warren
Last October I visited NYC with a friend. For both of us it was an extra holiday on top of many others. That’s why we decided to plan our visit such that we would make most of it in a budget-friendly way. We used to do that as students because we had to and we challenged ourselves to do it again because we wanted to. And you know what? We can still pull if off!
Read on to find out what we did (and did not) to limit our spending and make most of our stay!
“Colour is a power which directly influences the soul.”
Can you wear “wrong” colours and get away with it?
Let me rephrase that.
Can you wear “wrong” colours and look fabulous in them?
Yes, you can!
Read on to find out how to wear your unflattering colours and look good while doing so!